tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13676962.post112814983533541260..comments2024-03-19T11:29:35.307+04:00Comments on Learning to Live: Down and Out.Soniahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09184341166759324701noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13676962.post-1128573318526246962005-10-06T08:35:00.000+04:002005-10-06T08:35:00.000+04:00Having a good time depends on what you consider go...Having a good time depends on what you consider good times to be...so I think u did get affected by their words...maybe it's time for u to re-evaluate what really is good times mean for u...<BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13676962.post-1128513282746431542005-10-05T15:54:00.000+04:002005-10-05T15:54:00.000+04:00nope that wasn't me. i wasn't in sharjah.nope that wasn't me. i wasn't in sharjah.Soniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09184341166759324701noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13676962.post-1128513178350428512005-10-05T15:52:00.000+04:002005-10-05T15:52:00.000+04:00Sonia, were you the one floating in the lagoon in ...Sonia, were you the one floating in the lagoon in Sharjah last friday? We were bbq-ing on the shore. That the lagoon water is rich in nutrients (considering that the treated(?) sewage water from the whole of Sharjah is ceremoniously dumped into the lagoons) Kinda melting pot you'd say?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13676962.post-1128512924369947782005-10-05T15:48:00.000+04:002005-10-05T15:48:00.000+04:00KJ: hmmm.lost in trance: ??? really? tell us more!...KJ: hmmm.<BR/><BR/>lost in trance: ??? really? tell us more!!<BR/><BR/>rhyncus: yeah, i'm feeling the way u are now, what with everyone having such negative views about matrimony! except it's all confusing! <BR/><BR/>keshi: i know if it's bad it's gonna be very very bad, but from what they said,everyone else seemed to be having such a good time, which kinda made me think i'm missing out on something. but i don't think that anymore. <BR/><BR/>akr: i am trying! :o)Soniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09184341166759324701noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13676962.post-1128506897976093572005-10-05T14:08:00.000+04:002005-10-05T14:08:00.000+04:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.shakesterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09867656927031786562noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13676962.post-1128479285635083012005-10-05T06:28:00.000+04:002005-10-05T06:28:00.000+04:00aww Sonzz huggggz! Trust me most of my friends r g...aww Sonzz huggggz! <BR/><BR/>Trust me most of my friends r getting married soon too, some r already married and some with kids even. I dunno abt u but such things never make me depressed...it's the last thing to be depressed abt. Life is much more than having a BF or a husband...it's actually only a small part of being truly happy.<BR/><BR/>**What's the use of having everything if you don't have anyone to share it with?"<BR/><BR/>Well tell me one thing Sonzz...is a man the only other person u can share 'everything' in life with? Havent u heard of marriages getting screwed up just cos the wrong ppl got married? <BR/><BR/>Don't assume that marriage is the only way to share everything in ur life. First of all u need to ask what does 'everything' mean for u. I dunno what ur friend meant but for me everything in life means beauty of the heart, courage, wisdom and faith in God...the ability to survive in any circumstance without depending too much on Earthly pleasures...cos when the desires and pleasures die, what u r left with is those things.<BR/><BR/><BR/>If a good man walks into ur life then marriage is bliss...if not it can be hell. So enjoy what u have right now with ur family and friends...and mostly with urself.<BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13676962.post-1128456390821212572005-10-05T00:06:00.000+04:002005-10-05T00:06:00.000+04:00Hmm, just when I talked about devious matrimony-ad...Hmm, just when I talked about devious matrimony-advocates...Rhyncushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08213788607917247073noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13676962.post-1128449567646798062005-10-04T22:12:00.000+04:002005-10-04T22:12:00.000+04:00how easy it would have been!its like this avial si...how easy it would have been!<BR/>its like this avial situation...everything squashed up, but still very tasty :)Lost in trance...https://www.blogger.com/profile/10364405670141874208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13676962.post-1128408974643580652005-10-04T10:56:00.000+04:002005-10-04T10:56:00.000+04:00at some point of time in life u MIGHT realise that...at some point of time in life u MIGHT realise that nothing is worth it...KJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13646133351454596394noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13676962.post-1128402919935062372005-10-04T09:15:00.000+04:002005-10-04T09:15:00.000+04:00jithu: i sure hope so! i'm keeping my fingers cros...jithu: i sure hope so! i'm keeping my fingers crossed! <BR/><BR/>KJ: hmm, all compromises and sacrifices ? and has it been worth it? <BR/><BR/>rash: whoa! okay! yeah, i guess any relationship you had with them changes, once a person gets married. <BR/><BR/>zombie: lol! that wud be funny! the same guY! and rocketmail??! you sure have a fun job! <BR/><BR/>rahul: good to see u back. i'm not even sure if i even want to be in a relationship. but you know how it gets when everyone is oohing and aahing about their relationship when your's just went crashing down the rocks! it's not a good feeling. <BR/><BR/>lost in trance: well then, cheer up! and go see her or something!<BR/><BR/>akr: while i'm in the water, i'm so peaceful and happy. i just cudn't be more content. it's when i get out of it the problem starts!Soniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09184341166759324701noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13676962.post-1128401407873023252005-10-04T08:50:00.000+04:002005-10-04T08:50:00.000+04:00lying in the water staring up at a night sky sound...lying in the water staring up at a night sky sounds lovely...enjoy it while you do, not thinking about anything else....<BR/>all in good time and all that...:)shakesterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09867656927031786562noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13676962.post-1128385382076709192005-10-04T04:23:00.000+04:002005-10-04T04:23:00.000+04:00@ zombie: something@ROCKETMAIL.COM ?? somebody sto...@ zombie: something@ROCKETMAIL.COM ?? somebody stop me!!! ROTFL<BR/><BR/>sonia, i kno xactly how ur frnd feels. but then as silver said i guess we all need to count our blessings more often...for which i guess i'll be the most guilty :)Lost in trance...https://www.blogger.com/profile/10364405670141874208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13676962.post-1128366835347947042005-10-03T23:13:00.000+04:002005-10-03T23:13:00.000+04:00well! iam back for a blogging sojourn! About a rel...well! iam back for a blogging sojourn! About a relationship, i can only hope it works out soon for you. The thought of an arranged marraige freaks me out...Rahulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17218254355932642892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13676962.post-1128361152117656992005-10-03T21:39:00.000+04:002005-10-03T21:39:00.000+04:00Missie..I hope its not the same guy both of our mo...Missie..I hope its not the same guy both of our moms are carrying the picture of...i am being pestered abt an IIT IIM, IBM guy too... ;-)..<BR/><BR/>BTW, there's this guy whom we were trying to offer a job ( another one of those IIT IIM) types...the guy has studied so much that he's gone totally nuts...seriously he's gone insane, the way he talks, the way he walks and he tells us his email id is something@ROCKETMAIL.COM.....<BR/><BR/>God save us!Zombiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13621360260558977262noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13676962.post-1128360916992826322005-10-03T21:35:00.000+04:002005-10-03T21:35:00.000+04:00ur freinds are just jealous! married ppl suckur freinds are just jealous! married ppl suckRandomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01949093912491838432noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13676962.post-1128328812054125462005-10-03T12:40:00.000+04:002005-10-03T12:40:00.000+04:00soniai know exactly how u feel...I have been EXACT...sonia<BR/><BR/>i know exactly how u feel...<BR/>I have been EXACTLY thru that period...<BR/><BR/>today it is exactly seven yrs that i have been married & all the way it has been compromises, scarifices, not a easy thing to do.<BR/><BR/>i used to tell my parents "Jab Jab Jo Jo Hona Hai, Tab Tab So So Hota Hai"<BR/><BR/>wish u all the best....<BR/><BR/>:-)KJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13646133351454596394noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13676962.post-1128327410523167262005-10-03T12:16:00.000+04:002005-10-03T12:16:00.000+04:00all those happen happen for good.. :-)all those happen happen for good.. :-)Sujithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13378244335263949308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13676962.post-1128317473055057042005-10-03T09:31:00.000+04:002005-10-03T09:31:00.000+04:00noooooo! Nish, don't say that!!!! :o(noooooo! Nish, don't say that!!!! :o(Soniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09184341166759324701noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13676962.post-1128255342772159042005-10-02T16:15:00.000+04:002005-10-02T16:15:00.000+04:00arrey, easy does it. this is the beginning of a ve...arrey, easy does it. this is the beginning of a very irritating curve. by the time you start hearing of your friends having chiildren, it wont matter.n.g.https://www.blogger.com/profile/14971931370046751220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13676962.post-1128234486076900882005-10-02T10:28:00.000+04:002005-10-02T10:28:00.000+04:00injinuity: lol. nice try!injinuity: lol. nice try!Soniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09184341166759324701noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13676962.post-1128183756123508382005-10-01T20:22:00.000+04:002005-10-01T20:22:00.000+04:00give me all you money and bon voyage baby ;-)give me all you money and bon voyage baby ;-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13676962.post-1128166298356716612005-10-01T15:31:00.000+04:002005-10-01T15:31:00.000+04:00kahini: i am? it isn't? i dunno. i'm not that impa...kahini: i am? it isn't? i dunno. i'm not that impatient really. just that my mum is. she's got the picture of a guy at home. he'sworking at IBM, and the only other info i have on him is watever is on his resume. i say no, everytime. but it's getting harder to explain why. <BR/><BR/>silverine: that made me feel better! :o) the fact that floating in the sea can make me happy. thank you! :o)<BR/><BR/>injinuity: materialistic?? i prefer floating in the sea.Soniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09184341166759324701noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13676962.post-1128165862495658702005-10-01T15:24:00.000+04:002005-10-01T15:24:00.000+04:00whats the use if you have someone to share things ...whats the use if you have someone to share things with but nothing materialistic to share... think on those terms and pacify yourself madam... we are all at that age where we have to pacify ourselves about something or the other regarding relationsips... so be itAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13676962.post-1128161667081735562005-10-01T14:14:00.000+04:002005-10-01T14:14:00.000+04:00Hey your friend seems to be empty if she needs som...Hey your friend seems to be empty if she needs someone to share in orer to be happy. Cheer up, cos you felt happiness just by floating in the sea.silverinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16474136215458639419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13676962.post-1128150733398892212005-10-01T11:12:00.000+04:002005-10-01T11:12:00.000+04:00Sich impatience. And sharing is not all that it's ...Sich impatience. And sharing is not all that it's cut out tp be.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com